Tuesday Tip–Proper Grammar

My REAL tip is the website:  Grammar Girl. http://grammar.quickanddirtytips.com/

But I’ll add one of her tips, so you can see how cool she is.

Lay Versus Lie

First, we’ll do the easy part, which is the present tense

If you exclude the meaning “to tell an untruth” and just focus on the setting/reclining meaning of lay and lie, then the important distinction is that lay requires a direct object and lie does not. So you lie down on the sofa (no direct object), but you lay the book down on the table (the book is the direct object).

This is in the present tense, where you are talking about doing something now: you lie down on the sofa, and you lay down a book. 

There are a bunch of ways to remember this part.

How to Remember the Difference

The way I remember is to think of the phrase lay it on me. You’re laying something (it, the direct object) on me. It’s a catchy, dorky, 1970s kind of phrase, so I can remember it and remember that it is correct. 

What’s that I hear, music in the background? I know I don’t normally play music, but I love Eric Clapton, and his song Lay Down Sally can actually help you remember the difference between lay and lie… [record screeching sound] because he’s wrong.

To say “lay down Sally” would imply that someone should grab Sally and lay her down. If he wanted Sally to rest in his arms on her own, the correct line would be “lie down Sally.”

It’s pretty easy; you lay something down, and people lie down by themselves.

We don’t have to judge Clapton on his grammar; we can still love his music and at the same time know that it’s grammatically incorrect! In fact, that helps us remember, and we can love him more.

If you’re more of a Bob Dylan fan, you can remember that “Lay Lady Lay is also wrong. The lyrics should be “Lie lady lie, lie across my big brass bed.”

OK, so that was the present tense. It’s pretty easy; you lay something down, people lie down by themselves, and Eric Clapton can help us remember.

Grammar Girl goes on from there to talk about lay versus lie in past tense and then how to conjugate them, so if you are interested check out: http://grammar.quickanddirtytips.com/lay-versus-lie.aspx

I’m going to go lay down now.  Ur, or lie down?



3 Responses to “Tuesday Tip–Proper Grammar”

  1. Pam Belanger Says:

    You have touched my English teacher heart, Melanie!!!

  2. Ginger Says:


  3. portsmouthwardwomen Says:

    : )

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